Gaining

After going back and forth about bringing up potentially wanting to gain with my wife, I think that maybe I should do a test gain of 15-20 lbs first to see how much I enjoy the added weight and the process of getting bigger. That way, I don't really have to address it right away (unless my wife brings it up) and I can try out gaining a bit faster in a way that I notice a bit more that 20 lbs over a few years. Plus, I could have a few stuffings sessions over my test gain and see if I can one up previous ones. It might be nice to not have to hold back for once lol.

Plus, after the test gain, I'd have a few possible directions that I could go:

1. If I don't like it, I can stop gaining and lose the little bit of extra weight from the test gain.

2. If I am still unsure, I can do another test gain and see how I feel after that.

3. If I decide I like the gain, I could keep gaining and, unless my wife says something, not bring it up.

4. I could mention the desire to gain weight to my wife after the test gain if I like it.

I was already planning trying a stuffing session tomorrow 😅

I’m in similar shoes. Starting out with a small gain and take it from there!

I think plenty of women find a belly cute, and it makes them feel less self-conscious.

Bellies are cute!

Exactly! Actually one of the reasons I’m gaining is to see how women react to my fatter belly.

Exactly! Actually one of the reasons I’m gaining is to see how women react to my fatter belly.

So I didn't do anything crazy today, but I did have a 'light' dinner of about 1100 calories today (not my only meal today though lol). I'm definitely going to have up the ante with some stuffings and lots of snacks if I want to be serious with this test gain.